Cherish the Presence Not the Presents

It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas….

Actually, our house looks like Santa Claus himself decked the halls, hung the stockings with care and painted the walls with Christmas cheer.

My husband said it looks like Rudolf threw up in our house. But whatever, I love it and so do the kids.


 

We were married on December 30th and the gifts for our guests were “Marty and Kate” ornaments that we hand-made.  On our first Christmas, we realized that we didn’t own any ornaments or a tree-topper… but we did have 75 left-over ornaments and our wedding cake topper. Over the course of 7 years, we have acquired new and old ornaments, but we continue to use our cake topper as our tree-topper. And one Marty and Kate ornament always hangs on the tree. 
I really wanted to decorate the top of our kitchen cabinets but I couldn’t find anything that I liked… and that would fit in the 12 inch space. I found these letters at Hobby Lobby (originally $2.49 each but I scored them for 50% off) and painted them with “tomato red” all-purpose acrylic paint. 

And isn’t that part of what makes the Christmas season so magical? For a few short weeks, a wand is waved over the world and we all turn into children again.

We are working on teaching the concept that Christmas is the celebration of Jesus’ birth. Obviously, no birthday is complete without Zoe, Scooby and unicorns.

For the past four years, since I became a mom, I have sworn that this year I will not stress about presents, having a perfectly decorated house, or making Pinterest worthy sugar cookies.

This Pinterest craft was too easy and too adorable to pass up


Sometimes it is incredibly difficult. But with a little effort and an occasional ten second does-this-really-matter pause, I can remind myself that ten, twenty, thirty years from now, I won’t remember the presents, but I will remember the presence.

And so will my kids.

Watching ‘The Santa Clause’ and not-so-secretly wishing that Daddy was Santa Claus

                  

Toasting to our beautiful Christmas tree with hot cocoa, a tradition my parents started with my brothers and I.

Because in my children’s eyes, any Christmas cookie that they get to help decorate is perfect.

Because in my children’s eyes, the Christmas tree is 30 feet tall and beautiful, even if the ornaments aren’t color-coordinated and there are a few burned out lights.

Because in my children’s eyes, any red light in the sky is Rudolf’s nose.

In my children’s eyes, Thanksgiving marks the flipping of a switch and their world is transformed into a winter wonderland.

And this year, I hope to soak it up and enjoy the presence.


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